I was on one of my favorite forums and this saying was in another mama's signature -

"Your children are not your children. They are the sons and daughters of Life’s longing for itself.
You may give them your love but not your thoughts, For they have their own thoughts.
You may strive to be like them but seek not to make them like you." -- Kahlil Gibran

I really love this and thought I would share!

Tara